Dating a volunteer firefighter
To be honest, all people married to others with any number of jobs have moments of, “ Don’t marry a firefighter if you can’t sleep alone without them there.
On a day that you planned on doing nothing more than relaxing, the sound of fire sirens leaving the station will bring a halt to your attempt at relaxation, nerves on edge. Their nature is one of loyalty and, as such, reliability.There will be times when you will argue (like in any marriage). But, then again, I’m sure he’d have a few things to say about being married to a writer.Sometimes you will argue about the job in question. (Maybe I should have him write someday.) In the end, I love being married to a firefighter. My children obviously love visiting the fire department.Don’t marry a firefighter if you are relying on their presence or the stability of their schedule.
The pager will go off on Christmas Eve as you are trying to build a bike together.Sometimes it’s about washing garage floors and checking trucks.Sometimes it’s about arguments at their Union meetings, which you can’t always know the intricate details about but still need to offer support.Fire families, like other families, make sacrifices when it comes to schedules and last minute changes. And so, would I suggest that the reader who found our blog marry that firefighter?