Parents your dating
Is there any concern they might “out” him or cause major difficulties for him — or for you — if they knew?
If you decide to have a conversation with your parents, there are resources available, such as PFLAG, that can help explain transgender identities to parents.
However, the decision to talk about Adam’s gender with others may be a conversation the two of you have together first.
For more resources on transgender identity and dating, see the related Q&As.
It could be that you’d have the potential to be attracted to other trans men, as well.
Or it could be that Adam is the only trans person with whom you feel a sexual connection.
If you’re interested in talking to someone about your concerns, consider seeking out a counselor in your community.
If it would be helpful, you might also seek out any local LGBTQ organizations to connect with a community and garner additional support.
He was born with the wrong parts, but is truly the kindest person I have ever met.
But seeing my father lonely was even worse, and after 12 years without my mother it was time for him to move on.